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Initiative

When taking the initiative to start the conversation, simply go with the topics that naturally come to mind. Usually basedon the sorts of things, situations and people that surround granny dating uk at the time of the meeting. Then try to tie the woman into the topic, emphasizing how much things are better off with her around, and be sure to say it with a smile starting the sentence and also ending it as a form of powerfully effective, sub- conscious punctuation.  

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Then, once you have got the party started, from that point on, just be a really good listener and go with the flow of the conversation. Now that you have coolly and calmly taken control of a situation that would have proven to set most guys off in a sweating, stammering, tongue-tied trance, you proved to the woman that you are “The Man,”. You’ve taken circumstances by the “short and curlies,” opened the dialog with her, and made the first contact, seeking a connection. If there’s any chance at all of you eventually scoring with her, she will answer back, guaranteed! If she’s impressed and interested, she will respond back with something, who knows what, but something, though it may not be in any way at all based on what you said. But who cares, if she replies at all, congratulations, cause your willingness to break the ice, has drawn the affirmation of a fine female’s response, a definite sign that you are on track and on your way for a pleasurable pay-off. Now all you need to do is listen carefully to whatever she says next, without looking as if you are overly eager or intently interested, and she will naturally supply all the cues to where the conversation can go next.  

And if she doesn’t respond at all, or worse yet, makes a point of shoving your attempt clearly back into your face then once again I offer you a hearty pat on the back for going to the plate and swinging. And I must congratulate you, for managing to discover that she is a bitch, a huge waste of attention and energy, and not worthy of your efforts and valuable time. uk sex just did you a huge favor, by helping you to “qualify” your potential partners. So just think the words “Thank You” in your head, don’t allow her crappy personality and lacking attitude tick you off, cloud your thinking, create a single bit of worry, doubt, stress and tension, and simply move on to the next woman, without giving her a second thought. Chances are, the very act of you handling her is such a cool, calm and collected way will catch her attention and earn her respect. It may even freak her out a bit, shake up her confidence in her sex appeal, and open her mind to suddenly wanting to give you a shot, if not now, sometime in the future. So never act deflated and never let them see you sweat. It makes you all the more attractive in their perception of things!

Playing It Cool!

So I believe the best and most effective advice is to just play it cool. Seem happy to be there, comfortable around women, even if there is a ton of hot babes all around you, you need to make it seem like you live confidently in that environment on a daily basis. It’s all a matter of how you present and project yourself, and chicks dig guys that are cool and confident, so give them what they want, and they are a lot more likely to instantly begin giving you what you want!  

Unlike so many of the important conventional corporate “Sales and Marketing” theories that I have shared with you over the years, which I like to remind you of on a regular basis because (A) men are a lot more comfortable working and making money than trying to score hot chicks. And (B) because they play so well into the dating and seduction game (Remember you are ALWAYS in the process of continually “SELLING” yourself to the babes!), one huge difference is in the rule of “Talking First!” The old business adage is once a proposal is officially placed on the table, in the initial process of negotiations, it is generally believed one should clam up and shut his mouth, because according to the “Know it All’s” of marketing, “The first one who talks, Loses!” Now is this statement TRUE?. Actually I don’t believe that it is.  

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And have often proven it to be severely flawed, if not, “Dead Wrong” on numerous occasions in my own business dealings. But I will say that some very successful business men, whom I truly admire and respect, and who make enough money to be able to afford arguing with the “Wood Man” without giving it a worry in the world, believe it with all their mind, heart and soul. So, I will have to say that the jury is still out on that, regarding business, but when it comes to dating and seduction, the opposite is definitely the absolute truth!  

When attempting to make a positive impact, and successfully pick- up on babes, especially the very hottest of babes, “The One Who Talks First, WINS!” The first to speak sets the tone of the relationship, takes the driver’s seat, and places the other person, the lively lady, in a position of catching up and having to respond. Also it sets off her alarm that there is a “Take Charge,” confident and strong man in the area, and her attention is automatically centered on you, as a rare and valuable anomaly. 

Showdown at the MatchlMet Corral. Part 2. Online Dating Tips.

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"Yes, hi. My name's Evan and I've done a lot of Internet dating myself. While I totally agree with almost everything you said so far, there are two things that I strongly differ with you on."
"Really, what are they?"

"Okay, for starters, you should just know, right off the bat, that caffeine kills a date. Apart from scaling fish or sifting through trash for aluminum cans, sipping coffee by daylight is about the least romantic thing you can possibly do. Secondly, if a guy lets a woman split the check with him on the first date, there's no way he's getting a second date."
Everyone laughed, including Eve. This gave me the courage to continue. Not that I'm all that shy to begin with.
"Personally, I think the best way to meet someone is to wait until you've been talking for a while and you've built up a level of trust. By this point, she knows that you're not a psycho-killer, and are, for the most part, a nice guy. So when you tell her you want to take her out for drinks instead of trying to jam coffee into your busy weekend schedules, she'll be excited because it's a great departure from her standard coffee/interview date."

More laughter. Some nodding heads. I was on a roll. And nobody was stopping me. I couldn't believe it.
"Furthermore, going on a 'real date' changes the mood entirely, injecting romance and excitement into the equation. On a 'real date,' I can pick you up at your home, escort you to my car, open the door for you, and take you out to a dark bar for a few rounds of drinks that I'm going to pay for myself. The nighttime setting sets the scene for us to dress up a little bit, while the mood and the alcohol accomplish one very important goal."
"What?"

"I know I look a lot better when it's dark and my date is a little drunk, and I'll bet she probably looks better too."
Once again, everyone laughed. I wasn't kidding, though. Think about it. Instead of plastic chairs outside a crowded Starbucks at 3 P.M., we now have a different arena, where both parties are dressed to kill, eager to meet, and slightly tipsy. Therefore, the whole tone of the
 
conversation has changed from stilted and formal to loose and fun. Like it or not, liquor is a great social lubricant in the way it lowers your inhibitions. And, to be honest, it's why my dates went much better after I decided they'd take place in dark bars.
 

Showdown at the MatchlMet Corral

Anyway, when Eve Hogan got to the part about the man letting the woman split the coffee tab, I just couldn't help myself. I raised my hand high in the air like Arnold Horshack, just begging to be called upon by Mr. Kotter.
"Yes?" Eve said kindly.